I woke up this morning and was rattled from a dream I had. I never remember my dreams. Then, while I was trying to get dressed, I put on my sweater- backwards. At this point I sighed to myself and thought: “yep, it’s gonna be one of those days.”
I walked into the office, and was promptly attacked and berated by a coworker, who is having boundary issues regarding “her” project ideas to be used as giveaways for tradeshows, and how dare I use the same things as her (HI, we’re in marketing. Branding. Think about that one for a second.) And I bit my tongue. I went to speak to my boss, and ironed things out. After feeling much better about the situation, I was interrupted by the receptionist at the end of our meeting, because I had a delivery.
Thinking it was something promotional related I’m all like “okay be there in second.” I walk out of the room and see an old man with kind eyes, standing there, holding a vase filled with beutiful arrangement of flowers.
I could feel the tears brimming beneath the surface…and then I read the card.
“I know Valentine’s Day is a few weeks away, but I thought you could use a smile today! Miss and love you!*”
The tears started flowing down my face, before I could even try and stop them.
After calling to thank my amazing guy friend, the sender of said beautiful flower arrangement (this is the same one who visited Boston after my breakup with M, also the same one whom I vented to last night because I had a “splitting-migraine-and-was-dealing-with-M-harassing-me-and-just- was-genuinely-being-a-stressball-and-having-a-terrible-no-good-very-bad-emotional-day.” Aaaaand breathe. Anyway. He pretty much is the best guy. Ever.)
Where was I…oh yes. So, as I brought my lovely flowers downstairs to put in my office, I was pulled aside by my boss to grab some Starbucks. At which point, over my skinny cinnamon dolce latte, she told me that she was proud of me, and she recognizes that I’m genuinely trying and am doing a damn good job- and I need to not let my coworker affect me…and that she is speaking to her re: her attitude as of late toward me and the marketing team.
So, when I finally sat down and had a moment to think to myself, the memory of stumbling across a Grey’s quote last night popped into my mind (Hi, I’m Meredith at times, pleased to meet you). Last night, I didn’t realize just how much this quote would hit home no less than 24 hour late. But today? Well, today…this speaks to me:
“Some days the whole world seems upside down. And then some how, and probably, and when you least expect it, the world rights itself again. “
I hope it does for you, too.
*********UPDATE**********
Some of you asked to see the flowers, so I htouht I’d share. Because sharing is caring.
May these brighten your day a little my dearest Internets!

January 31, 2008 at 12:48 pm
I enjoy it when my day starts off bad and then gets better. But I hate days like today that start off awesome and end up terrible.
I’m glad you’re day rocks!
January 31, 2008 at 12:50 pm
M is still harassing you!? ugh!! I hate him.
I’m glad that your friend could cheer you up. I will gladly take 3nd place in the favorite person of the day competition if it means flowers from a great friend and kind words from your boss.
Don’t stress too much today. The week is almost over.
January 31, 2008 at 12:58 pm
I hope it does too. You’re amazing. Just thought I’d let you in on that.
January 31, 2008 at 12:59 pm
Awww…what a throughtful friend. I hope the rest of your day continues to get better!
January 31, 2008 at 1:00 pm
Could you BE a better writer? I’m happy the world turned right side up again for you. You are incredible, and deserve every one of those flowers
January 31, 2008 at 1:02 pm
i hope so too.
im not sure how much more i can take
January 31, 2008 at 1:09 pm
it’s amazing – just like how the universe can have some impeccably awful timing sometimes, it can have some very kickass timing as well. i love that your day balanced out and – dare i say – not only balanced out but gained itself more pluses than minuses. hope the rest just keeps getting better.
January 31, 2008 at 1:09 pm
I want flowers!
January 31, 2008 at 1:10 pm
wow flowers are about the sweetest gesture ever. glad your world righted itself again
January 31, 2008 at 1:17 pm
So happy for you BB! It sounds like it’s right-side-upping all over the place for you
January 31, 2008 at 1:22 pm
That was definitely something I needed to read today. Thank you.
January 31, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Oh they’re absolutely lovely, b! What a wonderful surprise!
xox
January 31, 2008 at 2:21 pm
Those flowers are beautiful and you’re so lucky to have a friend like that.
January 31, 2008 at 3:00 pm
that was so kind of your friend!
and what a great quote (I need to keep that in mind on the bad days).
January 31, 2008 at 3:00 pm
That is the sweetest thing EVER and the flowers are beautiful. What a wonderful surprise
I hope that quote is true, because I need something to turn around and go well for me.
xoxox
January 31, 2008 at 3:28 pm
Hi…I’m delurking to say, I really need some new guy friends! What a great friend to send you something when you’re feeling down. And they’re so pretty!
January 31, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Aww sweet! I’d like some flowers too please.
January 31, 2008 at 7:15 pm
That is the cutest thing ever, such a great friend. Those flowers are lovely. And congrats on the boss taking your side, er at least understanding you and working with you. Nice job!
January 31, 2008 at 7:28 pm
aw, so cute.
January 31, 2008 at 9:35 pm
i would have cried too
January 31, 2008 at 10:21 pm
What gorgeous flowers and what a fantastic friend. I’m glad your world is starting to right itself.
January 31, 2008 at 11:56 pm
What a good friend he is! Single? Just wondering.
Looking forward to tomorrow!!
February 1, 2008 at 5:57 am
I think I need to find more flower buying friends!
February 1, 2008 at 11:51 am
So sweet! What an incredibly lovely gesture.
And I thought the same thing as Brooke – single?!?!
February 1, 2008 at 12:02 pm
OoOoO… pretty!
Turn that frown upside down! (Lol, that was lame! You can laugh at me… as long as you’re laughing!)
Have a great weekend, Barbie!
February 1, 2008 at 6:25 pm
Aw, what a good guy! You are lucky to have him as a friend.
I hope you keep kicking ass at work!
February 1, 2008 at 7:14 pm
I hate days like that, when nothing seems to go right and your mind is just in other world all its own. But those flowers are AMAZING! You are one lucky gal to have a friend like that! I probably would have burst into tears too.
February 5, 2008 at 1:12 pm
It will always right itself, i’ve discovered. Thank goodness.