This morning has been one filled to the brim with fate and symbolism. I realize that is not a light statement to make, but its true.
(Don’t worry, this isn’t going to be a deep and heavy, majorly introspective post. It IS Monday morning.)
(I’ll get all emo on you later this week.)
(I know, you can hardly wait.)
Awhile ago, The lovely Each, on one of her weekend visits, made me a CD, “Barbie Mix 1.” With the rockstar’s new CD out, I had shelved it for awhile, but something told me to grab it, to pop in and listen to on my morning commute. As I drove along, it came to song #9.
It’s safe to say I don’t think I breathed the entire song.
Okay, so maybe I did, but it didn’t feel like it. I sat there, transfixed by the melody, and after the VERY HEAVY weekend I just came from, that I’m not quite ready to go into on here, because HI it’s Monday, and Barbie has her standards, I just sat there, and listened in a daze. And played it. Over. And over. And over again.
As I listened to the song, I came to a spot in my drive where there is a stoplight, and a grassy patch where Canadian Geese visit every morning. They mill about, picking and plucking on whats left of scraps from where the homeless people sometimes sit and beg for whatever one can offer; a prime intersection of all working folk. This morning, amidst the three geese pecking and plucking about, there was one goose that attracted my attention.
The goose? It simply sat there.
Cars whizzing past, horns honking, headlights shining upon it. But despite all this, quietly and still, the goose nestled in on that bit of grass. His head regally lifted, he observed the chaos ensuing around him. This image, combined with song, affected me. So much so that I realized I needed to write about it. I still have not yet come to my final conclusion about what I witnessed, but I know there is one. And I’m pretty sure it has something to do with where I’m at, and how I’m living my life. And the symbolism that a greater power wanted me to see.
Or, maybe it was just a goose sitting in an intersection, and I’m reading entirely too much into it. I don’t know. Whatever the case, it moved me.
So, in honor of that intelligent goose, with the ability to sit back and find peace in the chaos that surrounded him, I’m declaring today a “Music Monday.”
Because never before, have I ever found a song to convey the tumultuous twisting and turning of my thoughts and the state of my life right now.
So delicately. So beautifully. So truthfully.
Enjoy. And folks, if you haven’t heard this song, take a listen all the way through. It’s well worth it. Let me know what you think. (And for my guy readers out there? Even if you hate the song, Emmy Rossum is hotness, so at least you have that.)
Happy Monday.
xo, b
April 28, 2008 at 10:39 am
I looooove Emmy Rossum- she has the most gorgeous voice. I’d also give my left foot to look like her.
And I love moments like that, when music hits you at just the right time. I always have a hard time trying to explain it later, but it just makes sense.
April 28, 2008 at 11:05 am
Yep. I’ve totally had those moments, when your life and a certain song intersect perfectly. There’s nothing like it, and Music Monday is a great idea, regardless
Happy Monday to you – and to whatever new phase is about to start in your life.
April 28, 2008 at 11:23 am
Barbie:
You and I must be on the same wave length this mon morning. I recieved an email that had a quote from George Carlin and it was brilliant! Check it out on the blog!
April 28, 2008 at 11:33 am
Emmy is too… demure, for me.
April 28, 2008 at 11:37 am
great song!
April 28, 2008 at 11:39 am
Emmy Rossum is hotness. Sweet Sweet hotness.
April 28, 2008 at 11:39 am
I love it when things like that happen to me!
April 28, 2008 at 11:42 am
omg what an awesome awesome song! I must…must must must download this song
April 28, 2008 at 11:54 am
YES. loving this.
xo
April 28, 2008 at 12:43 pm
i totally dig this song!! It has an Imogen Heap sound to it! thanks for posting!
April 28, 2008 at 12:53 pm
I have to check out this Emily character. I have moments like that sometimes, where everything just moves you and fits together in one instance.
Speaking of Rockstar, I loved his music! So meant to write you that days ago, but of course time has escaped me again.
So BB….any Nantucket Red stories from over the weekend? I need to live vicariously through you and everyone else with beautiful budding relationships (insert pathetic sad face here).
P.S. I’m coming to Boston soon. OK, wait, so maybe not but I want to. Seriously.
April 28, 2008 at 1:21 pm
what a really pretty song. and, i love finding out about new artists. i knew she looked familiar, and just imdb’d her, and realized she was in mystic river! which reminded me of sean penn… and his damn good looks and really good hair… and… well, now i’ve lost focus.
let’s do drinks some night next week- i leave on friday but have random silly shit every night this week after work.
April 28, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Never heard of this song but omg i love it. I’m so downloading this as soon as i walk in my door tonight. Amazing!
I saw two ducks in the middle of the sidewalk in central park once, just sitting there with people all around them. Your story of the goose reminds me of this, and these ducks seriously were like smiling. Its amazing among all the crazyness of the world, theres still peace.
April 28, 2008 at 2:41 pm
Oh man Barbie, I loooove this song. Emmy = amazing.
I bought this song a while back and it just calms me down so much, I love listening to it.
April 28, 2008 at 3:10 pm
Okay, Barbie, first I want to tell you that your depth inspires me…I always thought Barbies were airheads. LOL
Seriously, though, I found the song beautiful and haunting, and probably even more meaningful because I am 36 and feel like my life is passing me by and I am missing so much. Thanks for sharing the song and your heart.
Oh, and I believe it was a random goose. Probably a hungover goose who couldn’t really get up.
Lastly, I think you need the red and white flowery dress that Emmy was wearing and under the beautiful skirt you could wear your strappy sexy red Barbie shoes.
Have a beautiful week!
Becky, the maid
April 28, 2008 at 6:01 pm
There are some songs that I still can’t listen to even to this day: the stuff I listened to with my ex all the time, the song I was hearing when I learned my grandpa died, and then there are the celebratory songs that always make me smile, like the ones playing the first time I had sex, or the stuff I listened to on my last road trip, etc.
Music IS symbolism, more often than you’d think. You can pinpoint your exact locations on a certain date in history based off of a song you heard at the time. And of course, some of them have the full potential to create introspective, life-changing moments.
And wow, this comment is kinda long. Sorry ’bout that.
April 28, 2008 at 6:11 pm
fantastic song. I’ve never heard any of her work before, but I’m a fan now for sure.
I’ve been having these same feelings lately; everything just comes so fast and then, in a whir, it’s gone but I’m still running, onto whatever comes next. Slowing down is more a discipline than something to just do, though; it’s hard. I need to find me some sitting goose skills. Seriously.
April 28, 2008 at 11:37 pm
Her voice is beautiful…thank you…
April 29, 2008 at 12:39 am
I’m delurking myself because I had to thank you for this song. I can’t believe there are NO other instruments but her voice.
And also, it also perfectly explains my life at the moment as well, so it was almost therapeutic to hear it.
I think your blog is fantastic, and I hope your mind has settled a bit and I look forward to the next update!
April 29, 2008 at 9:16 am
ooo very good song! i haven’t been around much this week/weekend, but i hope all is well darlin. if you want to vent about your heavy weekend, i’ll be around
xo
April 29, 2008 at 10:15 am
I love moments like that.
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May 7, 2008 at 11:23 am
Freakin’ love that song.